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Do Catholics Have A Morbid Fascination With Death?

Do Catholics Have A Morbid Fascination With Death?


They pray for dead people.


It is therefore a holy and wholesome thought to pray for the dead, that they may be loosed from sins. - 1 Machabees 12; 46


They honor dead people.


Title: The Sick, the Leprous, and the Lame Praying at Saint Hedwig's Tomb; People Coming to Visit Saint Hedwig's Tomb Artist/Maker: Unknown maker Culture: Silesian Place: Silesia, Poland, Europe (Place created) Date: 1353

Saint Clotilde Praying on the Tomb of St Martin by Carle Van Loo, c. 1753

Great Marian Procession, California

"First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all men, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life, godly and respectful in every way. This is good, and pleasing to God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth" 1 Tim. 2:1–4


They carry around pieces of dead people.


Rediscovery of the Relics of St Mark, a 14th century painting by Paolo Veneziano

ADORATION OF RELICS. Scene in a Roman Catholic church. Wood engraving, American, late 19th century.

Relics

"Elisha died and was buried. At the time, bands of Moabites used to raid the land each year. Once some people were burying a man, when suddenly they spied such a raiding band. So they cast the dead man into the grave of Elisha and everyone went off. But when the man came in contact with the bones of Elisha, he came back to life and rose to his feet.?" 2 Kings 13:21

"God did extraordinary miracles through Paul, so that even handkerchiefs and aprons that had touched him were taken to the sick, and their illnesses were cured and the evil spirits left them." Acts 19.11-12

Acts 5:15, where even Peter's shadow could cause miraculous healings.

"If the relics of the martyrs are not worthy of honour, how comes it that we read “precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints?" (Letter 109, 1, 2) St Jerome, Early Church Father


(They) have skulls on their desks.


St. Jerome, always portrayed with a skull nearby.
engraving of St Jerome by the German Albrecht Dürer executed in 1514:

Tradition has it that St. Jerome always kept a human skull on his desk to remind him of how short life is and the need to keep working.


St. Jerome, by Lucas van Leyden, dated 1521

Instagram photo of the desk of Catholic, Bobby Angel.


"Remember that death is not slow, and that the covenant of hell hath been shewn to thee: for the covenant of this world shall surely die." Ecclesiasticus 14:12

"They that fear the Lord, will prepare their hearts, and in his sight will sanctify their souls."

Ecclesiasticus 2:20


Sr. Theresa Aletheia Noble writes, "The Rule of Saint Benedict, written in the 6th century, includes the imperative to “keep death daily before one’s eyes.” As the Catechism points out, both Scripture and the teachings of the Church remind us of “the responsibility incumbent upon man to make use of his freedom in view of his eternal destiny” (1036,) (.....) Saints Jerome, Aloysius, and Mary Magdalene, among others, are often depicted in classic paintings with skulls. Saint Francis of Assisi once signed a blessing to Brother Leo with the tau cross and a small drawing of a skull. Pope Alexander VII commissioned Italian artist Bernini to make a coffin that he kept in his bedroom along with a marble skull for his desk to remind him of the brevity of life. Blessed James Alberione, the founder of the Daughters of Saint Paul, also kept a skull on his desk. "



They have a whole mass dedicated to death, complete with scores of music.


"Offering at a Requiem Mass" from The Hours of Catherine of Cleves, Dutch illuminated manuscript. Commissioned as a prayer book, it contains a rich series of devotions illustrated with especially elaborate suites of miniatures. dated 1440 AD

Funeral procession of Queen Jeanne, Royal 20 C VII, f. 200r, Chroniques de France ou de St Denis, Paris, last quarter of 14th century, (courtesy of the British Library)


"A Requiem or Requiem Mass, also known as Mass for the dead (Latin: Missa pro defunctis) or Mass of the dead (Latin: Missa defunctorum), is a Mass in the Catholic Church offered for the repose of the soul or souls of one or more deceased persons, using a particular form of the Roman Missal. It is usually, but not necessarily, celebrated in the context of a funeral.


Musical settings of the propers of the Requiem Mass are also called Requiems, and the term has subsequently been applied to other musical compositions associated with death, dying, and mourning, even when they lack religious or liturgical relevance.


The term is also used for similar ceremonies outside the Roman Catholic Church, especially in the Anglo-Catholic tradition of Anglicanism and in certain Lutheran churches. A comparable service, with a wholly different ritual form and texts, exists in the Eastern Orthodox and Eastern Catholic Churches, as well as in the Methodist Church.


The Mass and its settings draw their name from the introit of the liturgy, which begins with the words "Requiem aeternam dona eis, Domine" – "Grant them eternal rest, O Lord". ("Requiem" is the accusative singular form of the Latin noun requies, "rest, repose".) The Roman Missal as revised in 1970 employs this phrase as the first entrance antiphon among the formulas for Masses for the dead, and it remains in use to this day....


Una Voce - SOLEMN REQUIEM MASS, SAINT JOSEPHS CHURCH MACON, GA. 2015

In earlier forms of the Roman Rite, some of which are still in use, a Requiem Mass differs in several ways from the usual Mass in that form. Some parts that were of relatively recent origin, including some that have been excluded in the 1970 revision, are omitted. Examples are the psalm Iudica at the start of Mass, the prayer said by the priest before reading the Gospel (or the blessing of the deacon, if a deacon reads it), and the first of the two prayers of the priest for himself before receiving Communion. Other omissions include the use of incense at the Introit and the Gospel, the kiss of peace, lit candles held by acolytes when a deacon chants the Gospel, and blessings. There is no Gloria in excelsis Deo and no recitation of the Creed; the Alleluia chant before the Gospel is replaced by a Tract, as in Lent; and the Agnus Dei is altered. Ite missa est is replaced with Requiescant in pace (May they rest in peace); the "Deo gratias" response is replaced with "Amen". Black is the obligatory liturgical colour of the vestments in the earlier forms, while the later form allows a choice between black and violet, and in some countries, such as England and Wales, white. The sequence Dies irae, recited or sung between the Tract and the Gospel, is an obligatory part of the Requiem Mass before the Novus Ordo changes. As its opening words Dies irae ("day of wrath") indicate, this poetic composition speaks of the Day of Judgment in fearsome terms; it then appeals to Jesus for mercy. In the pre-Novus Ordo form, commemorations (i.e., collect, secret, and postcommunion of either lower-ranking liturgical feasts that occur on the same day or votive/seasonal commemorations) are absent from the liturgy; as a result, it is standard practice for a separate, smaller Requiem Missal containing only the rubrics and various Mass formularies for Masses for the dead to be used, rather than the full Missal containing texts that will never be used at Requiems.


The Requiem Mass is notable for the large number of musical compositions that it has inspired, including settings by Mozart, Verdi, Bruckner, Dvořák, Fauré and Duruflé. Originally, such compositions were meant to be performed in liturgical service, with monophonic chant. Eventually the dramatic character of the text began to appeal to composers to an extent that they made the requiem a genre of its own, and the compositions of composers such as Verdi are essentially concert pieces rather than liturgical works.


Johannes Ockeghem

Requiem, by Johannes Ockeghem (c. 1410 – 1497), is a polyphonic setting of the Roman Catholic Requiem Mass (the Missa pro defunctis, or Mass for the dead). It is probably the earliest surviving polyphonic setting of any requiem mass. It is unusual in that the movements vary greatly in style, and each uses a paraphrase technique for the original Gregorian chant. It has five parts for four voices and is one of Ockeghem's best known and most performed works.


Ockeghem's Requiem is often considered incomplete as it lacks a Sanctus, Communion or Agnus Dei. The closing movement, the Offertory, is the most complex. Blank opening sections in the Codex imply that there may have been another movement. The circumstances of its composition are unclear; it may have been composed for the funeral of Charles VII in 1461; an alternative hypothesis is that it was written after the death of Louis XI in 1483. (WIKI)




They do not seem to fear death.


"Fear not the sentence of death. Remember what things have been before thee, and what shall come after thee: this sentence is from the Lord upon all flesh."

Ecclesiasticus 41:5


Archideacon Stephen, 11 century. Byzantine icon.

St. Stephen was the first Martyr to openly die for Christ. After him, millions more followed suit, and showed no fear in the face of death, but rather, fear only in the thought of sinning against God.


St Stephen, first Christian martyr: Found guilty of blasphemy by the Sanhedrin, supreme council of the Jews, and stoned to death: Bible Acts 7:57. Woodcut from Hartmann Schedel Liber chronicarum mundi (Nuremberg Chronicle) Nuremberg, 1493. (Photo by Universal History Archive/Getty Images)


103 Korean martyrs (St. Andrew Kim, First Korean Catholic priest)

Martyrs of North America (known also as the Canadian Martyrs)

“September 10th is the feast of the 205 Martyrs of Japan, commemorating the missionaries and indigenous Japanese Christians executed for the Faith between 1598 and 1632.”



"It also happened that seven brothers with their mother were arrested and tortured with whips and scourges by the king to force them to eat pork in violation of God’s law. One of the brothers, speaking for the others, said: 'What do you expect to learn by questioning us? We are ready to die rather than transgress the laws of our ancestors.'" ( Martyrdom of a Mother and Her Seven Sons. ) 2 Maccabees 7: 1-42


"Do not fear those who kill the body but are unable to kill the soul; but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell." Matthew 10:28


St. Lawrence - grilled to death. From Book of Hours (`Hours of Simon de Varie'; use of Paris) Fourteeth Century.


Jaume Huguet, Detail of the Martyrdom of St. Bartholomew, 15th century

During the reign of Queen Elizabeth I, a devoted Protestant and Defender of the Faith in a military as well as a spiritual sense, Roman Catholics were forced to go underground. Margaret Clitherow, the Catholic-convert wife of a Protestant butcher in York, did all she could to protect her coreligionists. She allowed masses to be performed in her home secretly, and she also harbored priests there. Margaret fell afoul of a law instituted in 1583 that imposed the death penalty for such crimes, and her sentence was to be pressed to death. Pressed, on her back, over a sharp stone, with a door on top of her that was topped with an 800-pound weight. It took 15 minutes for her to die. PHOTO FROM: 'Theatrum Crudelitatum Haereticorum Nostri Temporis' {The theatre of cruelty of the heretics of our time} by Richard Verstegan, 1587

















They have a whole preparation

ritual

for death!


Portable Last Rites Set in Leather Case - Rubyland.com / VintageCatholic

(From FishEaters.com) First a definition: death is the separation of the soul from the body, a phenomenon we can't know has happened with moral certainty until corruption has begun. "Death" does not mean the cessation of breathing or heartbeat, nor does "brain death" mean that death has occured. The soul isn't "in" the heart, or "in" the lungs, or "in the brain, or "in" any particular part of the body. The treatment of the dying, the apparently dead, and their organs is goverened by this Truth.


A man on his deathbed attended by a monk and a figure of death, who is saying ‘I have sought the (=thee) many a day, for to have the (=thee) to my pray(=prey)’. Christ on high offers absolution (London, British Library, MS Additional 37049, f. 38v). Fifteenth Century.

Now, a person confronting death should receive the Sacrament of Unction for the possible restoration of body (His will be done) and, most importantly, soul. This is of prime importance and should never be neglected.


Other ways to help prepare the sick person for death are to pray the Holy Rosary (focusing on the Sorrowful Mysteries), the Divine Mercy Chaplet, to St. Joseph (the Patron of the dying) for a holy death, etc. -- with the sick person, if possible, or in such a manner that he can hear you. This includes audible prayer for the unconscious; never think that those who are unconscious or in a coma can't hear you!


The sick person should have a Crucifix (a St. Benedict Medal Crucifix, if possible) in view, perhaps to hold if he can, and should be encouraged to offer up his sufferings and to trust in the love and mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ. A lit blessed candle, as a symbol of the sick person's Baptism -- a symbol of sanctifying grace and the promise of eternal life -- should be placed nearby so he can see the flame (unless oxygen tanks are in use, of course!).


Pride of the spirit is one of the five temptations of the dying man, according to Ars moriendi. Here, demons tempt the dying man with crowns (a medieval allegory to earthly pride) under the disapproving gaze of Mary, Christ and God. Woodblock seven (4a) of eleven, Netherlands, circa 1460.

You'll note that the Catholic way of death is different from that of other "Christian" groups. We don't try to sanitize it and avoid the topic. We don't speak in euphemisms about it. We don't take salvation for granted, except the salvation of the souls of baptized children who've died before the age of reason (but we, of course, trust in the mercy of God for all others). And we don't consider it a sin or, at the least, a faux-pas to mourn. While we don't exactly "sit shiva," we don't see jumping up and down and singing happy songs as the natural reaction to having to miss someone until one's own death. In other words, it's OK to rend garments and weep; these things are not expressions of a "lack of faith," but are normal, natural reactions to the evil of death, and to missing someone and realizing that it will be some time before you see him again, Deo volente.


Go forth, Christian soul: a death-bed scene from a 15th-century French Book of Hours is the jacket picture of Cornish Wills

It must be remembered that sickness and death are great, great evils; they were not "supposed" to be a part of this world, and came about as a consequence of the sin of Adam. Christ, of course, conquered the tomb and gives us the hope of eternal life. Catholics, then, look at death for what it is -- an evil -- but cling to the hope He offers, trusting in His Divine Mercy while also realizing that He is Just. Christ Himself wept before the dead Lazarus.


Now, the sick person shouldn't be denied the Truth of his situation any more than those around him should lie to themselves. It is not a loving act to ignore reality out of fear of not wanting to alarm the sick one, and to do so is to imperil his everlasting soul. The dying person needs to face his mortality, to repent, to pray, to receive Unction, to be encouraged to trust totally in Jesus and His forgiveness and love, etc. He must spiritually prepare himself for judgement, and to help him do this is the single greatest act of love you can offer.


Temptation of lack of Faith; engraving by Master E. S., circa 1450

Ways of Comforting the Dying and Encouraging Him to Focus on Christ and His Passion:


"Death of St Monica (scene 13, south wall)" by Benozzo Gozzoli - Dated between 1464 and 1465


Throughout the dying person's time in his sick bed, it is good to offer to him short acclamations that encourage the focus on Christ and the prayers of the Saints. Below are the ones listed in the 1958 St. Andrew Daily Missal. Periodically whisper these prayers into the dying person's ears:


Into Thy hands, Lord, I commend my spirit.


O Lord Jesus Christ, receive my spirit.


Holy Mary, pray for me.


Holy Mary, Mother of grace, Mother of mercy, do thou defend me from the enemy, and receive me at the hour of death.



It is recommended, too, to read the 18th and 19th chapters of the Gospel according to St. John to the dying, helping him to focus on Christ.


Commending the Soul to God:




As death approaches more closely, the sick person's soul should be commended to God. The following traditional form is most beautiful:



Go forth, O Christian soul, out of this world, in the Name of God the Father almighty, Who created you; in the Name of Jesus Christ, the Son of the living God, Who suffered for you; in the Name of the Holy Ghost, Who sanctified you, in the name of the holy and glorious Mary, Virgin and Mother of God; in the name of the angels, archangels, thrones and dominions, cherubim and seraphim; in the name of the patriarchs and prophets, of the holy apostles and evangelists, of the holy martyrs, confessors, monks and hermits, of the holy virgins, and of all the saints of God; may your place be this day in peace, and your abode in Holy Sion. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.


O merciful and gracious God, O God, according to the multitude of Thy mercies Thou blotteth out the sins of such as repent, and graciously remit the guilt of their past offenses, mercifully regard this Thy servant (handmaid) N.____ and grant him (her) a full discharge from all his (her) sins, who with a contrite heart most earnestly begs it of Thee. Renew, O merciful Father, whatever has been vitiated in him (her) by human frailty, or by the frauds and deceits of the enemy: and associate him (her) as a member of redemption to the unity of the body of the Church. Have compassion, Lord, on his (her) sighs, have compassion on his (her) tears; and admit him (her), who has no hope but in Thy mercy, to the sacrament of Thy reconciliation. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.


Anointing of the Sick (oil on canvas), Longhi, Pietro (c.1701-85) / Fondazione Querini Stampalia, Venice, Italy

I commend you, dear Brother (Sister), to the almighty God, and consign you to the care of Him, whose creature you are, that, when you shall have paid the debt of all mankind by death, you may return to thy Maker, Who formed you from the dust of the earth. When, therefore, your soul shall depart from your body, may the resplendent multitude of the angels meet you: may the court of the apostles receive you: may the triumphant army of glorious martyrs come out to welcome you: may the splendid company of confessors clad in their white robes encompass you: may the choir of joyful virgins reeceive you: and may you meet with a blessed repose in the bosom of the patriarchs. May St. Joseph, the most sweet Patron of the dying, comfort you with a great hope. May Mary, the holy Mother of God, lovingly cast upon you her eyes of mercy. May Jesus Christ appear to you with a mild and joyful countenance, and appoint you a place among those who are to stand before Him for ever. May you be a stranger to all that is punished with darkness, chastised with flames, and condemned to torments. May the most wicked enemy, with all his evil spirits, be forced to give way: may he tremble at your approach in the company of angels, and with confusion fly away into the vast chaos of eternal night. Let God arise and His enemies be dispersed,, and let them that hate Him fly before His Face, let themm vanish like smoke; and as wax that melts before the fire, so let sinners perish in the sight of God; but may the just rejoice and be happy in His presence. May then all the legions of Hell be connfounded and put to shame; and may none of the ministers of Satan dare to stop you in your way. May Christ deliver you from torments, Who was crucified for you.. May He deliver you from eternal death, Who vouchsafed to die for you. May Jesus Christ the Son of the living God place you in the ever-verdant lawns of His Paradise; and may He, the true Shepherd, acknowledge you for one of His flock. May He absolve you from all your sins, and place you at His right hand in the midst of His elect. May you see your Redeemer face to face, and standing always in His presence, behold with happy eyes the most clear Truth. And may you be placed among the company of the blessed and enjoy the sweetness of the contemplation of your God for ever. Amen.


By Giuseppe Maria Crespi, dated 1710

Receive, Lord, Thy servant (handmaid) into the place of salvation, which he (she) hopes to obtain through Thy mercy.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) from all danger of Hell; and from all pain and tribulation.

R. Amen

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) as Thou didst deliver Enoch and Elias from the common death of the world.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Abraham from the midst of the Chaldeans.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Job from all his afflictions.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Isaac from being sacrificed by his father.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Lot from being destroyed in the flames of Sodom.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Moses from the hands of the Pharaoh, King of Egypt.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant, as Thou didst deliver the three children from the fiery furnace, and from the hands of an unmerciful king.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Susanna from her false accusers.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver David from the hands of Saul and Goliath.

R. Amen.

Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Peter and Paul out of prison.

R. Amen.

And as Thou didst deliver that blessed virgin and martyr, Saint Thecla, from three most cruel torments, so be pleased to deliver the soul of this Thy servant, and bring it to the participation of Thy Heavenly joys.

R. Amen.


Extreme Unction Rogier Van der Weyden. Year 1445

We commend to Thee, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) N.____, and we pray Thee, Lord Jesus Christ, the Savior of the world, that as in mercy to him (her) Thou becamest man, so now Thou would be pleased to admit him (her) to the bosom of Thy patriarchs. Remember, Lord, he (she) is Thy creature, not made by strange gods, but by Thee, the only living and true God; for there is no other but Thee, and none can equal Thy work. Let his (her) soul rejoice in Thy presence, and remember not his (her) former iniquities and excesses, which he (she) has fallen into, through the violence of passion and the corruption of his (her) nature. For although he (she) has sinned, yet he (she) has always firmly believed in the Father, Son and Holy Ghost; he (she) has had a zeal for Thy honour, and faithfully adored Thee as his (her) God, and Creator of all things. Remember not, Lord, we pray Thee, the sins of his (her) youth, and his (her) ignorances; but according to Thy great mercy, be mindful of him (her) in Thy Heavenly glory. Let the heavens be opened to him (her), and the angels rejoice with him (her). Let the archangel St. Michael, whom Thou didst appoint the chief of the heavenly host, conduct him (her). Let the holy angels come out to meet him (her), and carry him (her) to the city of heavenly Jerusalem. Let blessed Peter the apostle, to whom God gave the Keys of the Kingdom of Heaven, receive him (her). Let St. Paul the apostle, who was a vessel of election, assist him (her). Let St. John the beloved disciple, to whom the secrets of Heaven were revealed, intercede for him (her). Let all the holy apostless, who received from Jesus Christ the power of binding and loosing, pray for him (her). Let all the saints and elect of God, who in this world have suffered torments in the name of Christ, intercede for him (her); that being freed from the prison of his (her) body, he (she) may be admitted into the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ, Who with Thee and the Holy Ghost, lives and reigns, world without end. Amen.


Administration of the Eucharist to a dying person (painting by 19th-century artist Alexey Venetsianov)

Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary:


May Mary the most merciful Virgin Mother of God, kindest comforter of them that mourn, commend to her Son the soul od this His servant (handmaid), that through her maternal intercession, he (she) may overcome the dread of death and, with her as guide, joyfully reach his (her) longed-for home in the heavenly fatherland.


R. Amen.


Prayer to St. Joseph:


To thee I have recourse, St. Joseph, Patron of the dying; and to thee, at whose blessed death watchfully assisted Jesus and Mary, by both these dearest pledges I earnestly recommend the soul of this servant (handmaid) in the sufferings of his (her) last agony, that he (she) may by your protection be delivered from the snares of the devil and from eternal death, and may merit to attain everlasting joy. Through the same Christ our Lord.


R. Amen.



Dutch School, dated 1600: Last Rites, Oil on wood,

Prayers Just after Death:


After the soul has left the body, the following responsory is said:


R. Subveníte, Sancti Dei, occúrrite, Angeli Dómini, Suscipiéntes ániman ejus, Offeréntes eam in conspéctu Altíssimi. Suscípiat te Christus, qui vocávit te, et in sinum Abrahae Angeli dedúcant te. Suscipiéntes ánimam ejus, Offeréntes eam in conspéctu Altíssimi.


R. Come to his assistance, all you Saints of God: meet him, al you Angels of God: receiving his soul, offering it in the sight of the Most High. May Christ receive you, who hath called you, and may the Angels conduct you to Abraham's bosom. Receiving his (her) soul and offering it in the sight of the Most High.


V. Réquiem aetérnam dona ei, Dómine, et lux perpétua lúceat ei. Offeréntes eam in conspéctu Altìssimi.


V. Eternal rest give to him (her), Lord: and let perpetual light shine upon him (her). Offering it in the sight of the Most High.


Waldmüller - Die letzte Ölung. Dated 1846

Kýrie eléison.

Christe eléison.

Kýrie eléison.

[Pater noster (silently)]... Lord, have mercy.

Christ, have mercy.

Lord, have mercy.

[Our Father (silently)].....

V. Et ne nos indúcas in tentatiónem. V. ...and lead us not into temptation.

R. Sed libera nos a malo. R. But deliver us from evil.

V. Réquiem aetérnam dona ei, Dómine. V. Eternal rest give to him (her), Lord.

R. Et lux perpétua lúceat ei. R. And let perpetual light shine upon him (her).

V. A porta ìnferi. V. From the gates of Hell.

R. Erue, Dómine, ánimam ejus. R. Deliver his (her) soul, Lord.

V. Réquiescat in pace. V. May he (she) rest in peace.

R. Amen. R. Amen.

V. Dómine, exáudi oratiónem meam. V. O Lord, hear my prayer.

R. Et clamor meus ad te véniat. R. And let my cry come to Thee.

V. Dóminus vobiscum. V. The Lord be with you.

R. Et cum spiritu tuo. R. And with thy spirit.

Orémus. Tibi Dómine, commendámus ánimam fámuli tui (fámulae tuae) N.____, ut defúnctus (defúncta) saéculo tibi vivat: et quae per fragilitátem humánae conversatiónis peccáta commìsit, tu vénia misericordìssime pietátis abstérge. Per Christum Dóminum nostrum.


Let us pray. To Thee, Lord, we commend the soul of your servant (handmaid) N.____, that being dead to this world he (she) may live to Thee: and whatever sins he (she)( has committed in this life through human frailty, do Thou in Thy most merciful goodness forgive. Through Christ our Lord.


R. Amen. R. Amen.

Grant, O God, that while we lament the departure of this Thy servant (handmaid), we may always remember that we are most certainly to follow him (her). And give us grace to prepare for that last hour by a good life, that we may not be surprised by a sudden and unprovided death, but be ever watching, that, when Thou callest, we may, with the Bridegroom, enter into eternal glory: through Christ our Lord. Amen.



Catholic Priests mostly wear black to symbolize death!


FSSP – Fraternitas Sacerdotalis Sancti Petri


" In the early centuries of the Church, priests did not wear anything distinctive for their everyday attire. They wore the typical clothing of the period and would only look different when they put on priestly vestments for celebrating Mass.


Gregory the Great: Scene, celebrating Mass. Book of Hours France, ca. 1480

Over time the fashion trends shifted and instead of moving along with the rest of the world, the clergy retained the former way of dressing. It was during the 12th and 13th centuries that priests adopted the Roman cassock as the piece of ordinary clothing that distinguished them from the laity. Soon after this decision the Church made further regulations that required priests to wear the distinctive garb.


A.D. 900, French. Costumes of All Nations (1882) by Albert Kretschmer, painters and costumer to the Royal Court Theatre, Berin, and Dr. Carl Rohrbach.

At first the cassock only consisted of a robe-like garment tied at the waist with a sash and did not feature a white collar as we are familiar with today. The color of the cassock did not receive regulation until much later and likely rose from the easy availability of black dye. Historically black was the cheapest dye to use and so was fitting for the simple parish priest. Other clergy members wore different colors to distinguish their rank and around the time of Pope Pius V, the pope began to wear a white garment similar to the pope’s white cassock today.The black cassock is still a garment worn by many priests, though most bishops’ conferences around the world have permitted the use of a black shirt instead.

Symbolically black is associated with simplicity and humility and reminds priests of their need to imitate those virtues. Black is also a color that represents death and mourning and symbolizes how a priest is to die to oneself and decrease so that God may increase in his life. He is called to take up the cross of Our Lord daily, dying to sin so that he may rise in the life of grace." Aleteia


Print collection of Maggie Land Blanck June 11, 1860 Graphic

Children, Priest, Spitz Dog, Smoking Tobacco, Vintage 1873 German Antique Print

Amen, amen I say to you, unless the grain of wheat falling into the ground die, Itself remaineth alone. But if it die, it bringeth forth much fruit. He that loveth his life shall lose it; and he that hateth his life in this world, keepeth it unto life eternal. - John 12: 25-25



They seem to almost WANT to die for the faith!

“The more we are hewn down by you, the more numerous do we become. The blood of martyrs is the seed of Christians!”–Tertullian

The word "martyr" comes from the Greek word μάρτυς, mártys, which means "witness."


1927 - Execution of Catholic priest Francisco Vera during the Cristero War. He was assassinated in Jalisco after celebrating a mass.

In 107, during the reign of the brutal Emperor Trajan, the holy BishopSt. Ignatius of Antiochwas wrongfully sentenced to death because he refused to renounce the Christian faith. He was taken under guard to Rome where he was to be brutally devoured by wild beasts in a public spectacle.

In his pastoral letters he regularly thanked his brother and sister Christians for their concern for his well being but insisted on following through in his final witness of fidelity: "I know what is to my advantage. At last I am becoming his disciple. May nothing entice me till I happily make my way to Jesus Christ! Fire, cross, struggles with wild beasts, wrenching of bones, mangling of limbs-let them come to me, provided only I make my way to Jesus Christ. I would rather die and come to Jesus Christ than be king over the entire earth. Him I seek who died for us; him I love who rose again because of us." He wrote to the disciples in Rome: "Permit me to imitate my suffering God ... I am God's wheat and I shall be ground by the teeth of beasts, that I may become the pure bread of Christ."

" I am God's wheat and shall be ground by the teeth of wild animals. I am writing to all the churches to let it be known that I will gladly die for God if only you do not stand in my way. I plead with you: show me no untimely kindness. Let me be food for the wild beasts, for they are my way to God !"(catholic.org)

(St.) Fr. Isaac Jogues went back to Ossernenon, the place of his captivity, as an envoy of the French to help with this peace effort. (He could have stayed safety away but..)Then he decided to return there a second time, not as a diplomat but as a priest. Before leaving he wrote these words to a fellow priest:

My heart tells me that if I am the one to be sent on this mission I shall go but I shall not return’ But I would be glad if our Lord wished to complete the sacrifice where He began it. Farewell, dear Father. Pray that God unite me to Himself inseparably.

He was martyred there not long after returning to the Indians. (source)



St. José de Jesús Sánchez del Río went to visit the tomb of a Cristero martyr in 1927, and asked God to let him also die in defense of the Catholic faith. Not even a year would go by before his wish was fulfilled. In February of 1928, he was assassinated for the cause of Christ. At his death, Joselito, as his family affectionately called him, was just over a month shy of his 15th birthday.

Pope Francis canonized the 14-year-old martyr on Oct. 16 in Rome, alongside six others. (source)



St. Thérèse of Lisieux, once wrote, worried about her vocation: " I feel in me the vocation of the Priest. I have the vocation of the Apostle. Martyrdom was the dream of my youth and this dream has grown with me. Considering the mystical body of the Church, I desired to see myself in them all. Charity gave me the key to my vocation. I understood that the Church had a Heart and that this Heart was burning with love. I understood that Love comprised all vocations, that Love was everything, that it embraced all times and places...in a word, that it was eternal! Then in the excess of my delirious joy, I cried out: O Jesus, my Love...my vocation, at last I have found it...My vocation is Love!"


As a child, St. Maximilian Kolbe (1894-1941) had a deep devotion to Our Lady. On one occasion he had a vision in which Mary offered him either a white garment, symbolizing purity, or a red one, symbolizing martyrdom. “I choose both,” the boy replied. His heart was transfixed by Our Lady. Later he prayed that when he died, he would be blessed with departing life on a Feast Day of the Blessed Mother. (He died on August 14th, the Eve of the Assumption!!) (source)


“Let us all die in our innocence: and heaven and earth shall be witnesses for us, that you put us to death wrongfully” (1 Mc 2:37)


Come to think of it... Catholics always seem to be talking about death!




“The more one longs for a thing, the more painful does deprivation of it become. And because after this life, the desire for God, the Supreme Good, is intense in the souls of the just (because this impetus toward him is not hampered by the weight of the body, and that time of enjoyment of the Perfect Good would have come) had there been no obstacle; the soul suffers enormously from the delay.” - St. Thomas Aquinas
It is therefore a holy and wholesome thought to pray for the dead, that they may be loosed from sins. - 1 Machabees 12; 46
I am the resurrection and the life: he that believeth in me, although he be dead, shall live: And every one that liveth, and believeth in me, shall not die for ever. - John 11:25-26
The business of the Christian is nothing else than to be ever preparing for death. - St Irenaeus of Lyons

Catholicism's relationship with death is one that many might see as intensely morbid.... but that's okay. Most people like to avoid things that the world views as "not nice" or "morbid", but the fact is that Catholicism is really not interested in what the world accepts as appropriate. What the Bride of Christ is interested is in the saving of souls from Hell (John 3:16), and the Glory of God in all things (1 Corinthians 10:31). Period. This means the conversion of every human being ever created to the One True Faith, so that they give honor and glory to God, and become Saints. With this as the main goal in mind, it becomes less harder to imagine death as such a bad thing, but rather, something to prepare for in readiness and holy joy to meet our God!

The Council of Trent sixth session, degree on justification:

"Nevertheless, let those who think themselves to stand, take heed lest they fall, and, with fear and trembling work out their salvation, in labours, in watchings, in almsdeeds, in prayers and oblations, in fastings and chastity: for, knowing that they are born again unto a hope of glory, but not as yet unto glory, they ought to fear for the combat which yet remains with the flesh, with the world, with the devil, wherein they cannot be victorious, unless they be with God's grace, obedient to the Apostle, who says; We are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh; for if you live according to the flesh, you shall die; but if by the spirit you mortify the deeds of the flesh, you shall live."


St. John of the Cross wrote: "It should be noted, then, that all the harm the soul receives is born of its enemies, mentioned above: the world, the devil, and the flesh. The world is the enemy least difficult to conquer; the devil is the hardest to understand; but the flesh is the most tenacious, and its attacks continue as long as the old self lasts."


Saint Ambrose a Father of the Church once sad : “Where Peter is therefore, there is the Church. Where the Church is there is not death but life eternal. …Although many call themselves Christians, they usurp the name and do not have the reward.” (The Fathers of the Church )


“How consoling it is to see a just man die! His death is good, because it ends his miseries; it is better still, because he begins a new life; it is excellent, because it places him in sweet security. From this bed of mourning, whereon he leaves a precious load of virtues, he goes to take possession of the true land of the living, Jesus acknowledges him as His brother and as His friend, for he has died to the world before closing his eyes from its dazzling light. Such is the death of the saints, a death very precious in the sight of God.” - St. Bernard of Clairvaux
“It is not Death that will come to fetch me, it is the good God. Death is no phantom, no horrible specter, as presented in pictures. In the catechism it is stated that death is the separation of soul and body, that is all! Well, I am not afraid of a separation which will unite me to the good God forever.” - St. Therese of Lisieux

So let us not fear death! But work to purify ourselves in the sight of God day by day, hour by hour, moment by moment. Let us ready ourselves to meet the Bridegroom Face to face!


"Therefore, in every deed and every thought, act as though you were to die this very day. If you had a good conscience you would not fear death very much. It is better to avoid sin than to fear death. If you are not prepared today, how will you be prepared tomorrow? Tomorrow is an uncertain day; how do you know you will have a tomorrow? " Imitation of Christ, Book 1 Chapter 7
"For yourselves know perfectly, that the day of the Lord shall so come, as a thief in the night." [1 Thessalonians 5:2]


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